2:27 I'm a man. Whatever lady I am in a relationship with has no problem giving head. If you don't it, that's your business. But I don't like having a dry dick.
2:27 has big time security issues. You probably wear skirts to your ankles at all times.
Wow i dont know wats more hilarious the text or u chicks having an argument over head (which is making me hard) but let me (a guy) spell it out for you. We like it when girls give head, and as long as their our girfriend not just some random chick we wont call them a whore or slut. So if ur scared just get over it
i'm 20, in a relationship, i've gone down on him, i'm a virgin & plan on being for a while...am i whoretastic? i don't think so :)
i believe in the words "lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed"
I'm just going to throw this out here. Maybe she's never given a BJ before and is just nervous. Thankfully this is anonymous and I can admit I was nervous the first time too and admitted to the guy I was nervous about it and he was really nice and soothed my nerves before I went down on him. Once you get past that first time it's no big deal.
I can't believe how many whores are trying to justify their slutty and shameful behavior. what is wrong with you people. NO GUY RESPECTS A STUPID FUCKING COCK SUCKING PIECE OF SHIT WHORE.
girls who give head arent respected in society? how the hell would society know whether or not a girl has given head unless shes working a street corner in las vegas with her thumb in the air? i can understand how those girls wouldnt be respected, but all other arguments are invalid. i have given head plenty of times and i know for a fact i am respected. so all you little cunts saying "only whores give head", man the fuck up. you're all pussies.
10:27PM- was this a nice reality check for you? Do you see now how you are viewed? Kinda hurts doesn't it. To know that you are seen as nothing more than a stupid whore with cock breath?
10:28
Actually, the girls who don't give head are far more boring in bed. It may be my experiences, but my point was that people who give oral sex are not below you as people.
The women who truly think not sucking dick is going to get you through life with better relationships are mistaken. Trust me when I say this, if you're not sucking his dick, someone else is or will.
I'm one of the girls who doesn't. I felt so horrid the one time that I tried. I ended up chickening out. I apologized (which I believe made it worse at the time). I know that my problem is I'm so afraid I won't do it right, that I rather just not do it.
giving head does not make you a fucking whore. goddamn stupid people. i love giving head, it gives me and my man pleasure, who wouldn't want that? dumb fucks i swear
I don't give head and I am happier than friends that do. My one friend always lectured me about how liberated she was and how she was proud of the fact that she pleased her man....... well he left her 3 years ago and she still feels like a dumb whore. And she is.
You people annoy me. It's a choice, you are not apart of my life and therefore you have no right to judge me. I'm not a whore, and I give head. I know I'm respected by my boyfriend and by everyone else. If YOU don't want to give head, that's fine, DON'T, but stop judging us who do.
11:00PM Does that guy even still talk with you? NO, but I am sure that everytime he sees you kiss another guy he will laugh to himself and wonder if that guys tastes him. So yea, the others are right to call you a whore.
girls, don't say blowing a guy is gross or nasty if you ever want a guy to go down on you...and you obviously want us to do that. it's a two-way street, so learn to give oral if you want to get some yourself.
I love how all these stupid people are trying to justify giving head........ it is not socially acceptable and there is a stigma. It is just not something women can be proud of.
Oivey, I'm afraid of going down on a guy because I gag when I brush my teeth, when that happens I think "What the fuck would happen if I actually suck a dick?" I automatically think that I would vomit. I have suck a gag reflex it's ridiculous.
Or the guy's dick is so fucking big she is afraid she is going to joke. There are just so many things that need to be taken into account before judging the situation and the girl for not giving the dude head.
Again, I'm the one who originally posted this text.
In response to 11:11PM on July 6th..
As a matter of fact, no I do not still talk to that guy. (The one I was in a relationship with)
He died shortly after our 1 year 9 months anniversary. He was the first man I'd ever been with, and I haven't been with anyone since then, so how am I a whore? Maybe you should do us all a favor, and actually try thinking before you make assumptions about other people's personal lives.
8:15,
whores aren't always the ones that get paid. I was just stating my opinion on the matter. My guy friends say they could never respect a girl that gives them head. And yes, anal is just as nasty. As to being choked, it makes you a disgusting nympho. The only girls I know who give head are the biggest, ugliest, fattest sluts alive. I don't expect to receive it if I don't give it, so I'm not a hypocrite.
- 7:58
1:35PM is fucking kidding herself, you were pressured into doing it and you will be damned if you allow your feelings of shame to surface again. Nice job being a whore. fucking idiot.
Giving head doesn't define anyone to being a whore... It's just a type of sex that people do. You are not a whore unless you give out random head. Personally, I think giving head is really disgusting, but I don't think it's bad if others do it. It's just not my thing. Everyone has a different preference and enjoys different things in sex, so why should they be judged for what they like?
2:08 #1 you are cool with me. I hope my future wife is a "lady in the street, but a freak in the bed" and no you are not a whore.
2:08 #2 has security issues. There is nothing wrong with pleasing your significant other as long as you don't have a problem with it.
2:08, giving head but remaining a techinical virgin DOES NOT MEAN you are classy/pure. WOW, you are definitely the worst one here. you think your future husband will respect you more for sucking a bunch of cocks but but not taking it in your vag?
2:05 - Your gag reflex doesn't work if you're upside down, try lying on your back on the end of the bed w/ your head off the edge, worked wonders for an ex of mine...
11:12 If you're referencing 11:02, I'm a guy. I don't have a lack of respect for a woman who gives head. You probably some young stupid bitch who only fucks missionary.
12:11 and 12:13 So you are a happier person ONLY because you don't give head? You two sound pretty stupid. We are talking about sexual activity, not how you interact or live your life. We are talking about sucking or not sucking a dick. DAMN! I doubt a dick in your mouth plays a major role in your happiness.
there is ABSOLUTELY NO correlation between giving head and a whether you have a sucessful relationship or not. also no correlation with maturity either, to all you dumbfucks
who think there is a correlation there.
I agree with 10:28 and I wouldn't marry a cocksucker. I dont want to look at the mother of my children and have the mental image of her on her knees sucking on a dick.
1:39 read the the fucking posts, I'm 1:35. I'm a man who doesn't see a problem with a lady giving head. I never pressured a girl to go down on me, nor have I asked. Some women actually get wet and enjoy it. You may see it as a chore, but couples and some married people alike actually like pleasing their partner in bed.
12:19 I'm starting to question why I am even responding to you. People can"t really tell who the fool is. A couple wants to please each other, but you see it as being submissive and unassertive. What a weirdo.
11:23AM you think its a sign of maturity to give head? What is wrong with you people. I personally am 25 and I agree with all the posts about not giving head. I dont, never have, never will.
There is nothing wrong with giving head. I'm definitely not a whore or slut. I don't ever hook up with anyone. I don't party. I love performing oral. Just because your friends don't tell you they gave someone head doesn't mean they haven't done it. Stop being so close minded. Everyone is different.
1:05AM- Just because he is dead, does not mean you get a "Get out of the Brothel for Free" Card...... You still performed the act, you still find it acceptable, and you passed judgement on a woman who didn't do it.
.... still a whore......
11:26 I'm pretty sure your future husband will get tired of the lame missionary position after some time. What are you going to do if he asks you to go down on him?
I agree with 1:26PM our vocab is very negative towards women who give head. I do not think it is socially acceptable. Which is why I don't give head. Someone else said it is an act of submission and I agree.
This entire argument is stupid!!! Everyone knows that women who give head are not respected. Our entire vocabulary is designed to put these women down. It just is not acceptable for a woman to do it.
I don't understand how it's not acceptable for women to do it. Who the hell cares what they do with their parteners? I know for a fact that my man doesn't go boasting about it so other people can judge me, or he doesnt judge me himself because if you care about eachother then all you want to do is please the other.
You are so quick to judge! Maybe YOU shouldn't give head, but other women want to pleasure their man. I'm not an ugly slut, I haven't had sex, and have only ever been close with ONE guy. I'm still WITH that one guy and yes i do give him head! There is nothing wrong as long as you are in a trusting relationship. That means he wont judge you, and he wont go telling his friends. Grow up and stop assuming.
My girlfriend gets wet sucking my dick, I don't have to ask for it. She just gets pleasure from giving me pleasure.
I have no problem with girls who don't give head, but you judgmental bitches who declare every girl who sucks is a slut/whore, just shows your true colors. Haters. Oh, and if I get married, I'm marrying a cocksucker. Girls who have fewer inhibitions are often far more passionate than you conservative cunts who can only dream of a good fuck.
12:19 So a girl that gives head is submissive in the real world? What? Her boyfriend may go down on her and she returns the favor, what's the problem? 12:19 what's the real issue with you?
Girls, stop trying to tell everyone that you THINK guys don't respect girls who give head. You cannot possibly know that about men, because it changes for each one. A man respect is based on a lot more than whether or not a girl gives head.
Exactly! It depends on how much he cares for the women! Obviously if she is whoring around she's not going to get any respect. But if she is doing it within a relationship I really don't see the problem.
This thread has confirmed that I am right for not giving head. Good to know, granted the respect I get from my BFs already confirmed that. I like being able to leave a relationship with my dignity intact. Its a good feeling.
My boyfriend definetely respects me and I give head. I don't understand how you can have such a strong and hateful opinion towards others who choose to do it. Honestly, if you are going to say that us who give head have no dignity (because we definetely do) then keep your opinions to yourself. I know I'm not whoring around when I do it, so obviously I get respect.
Giving head doesn't make you a whore. I have never done it and I don't plan on doing that any time soon but I'm not going to be like the many fucking people on here judging others about what they are actually willing to do with their sexual lives. If you want to cool, if you don't want to sweet. It's no ones business on what someone should do in their lives unless it actually affects them in some way or form. Just don't be stupid.
11:00PM- I have a lot of guy friends and I have talked with them about the subject before; they agree that they DO NOT RESPECT a girl that goes down. So while you may be able to justify it in your mind, clearly the world views you as a whore.
why are people freaking out about blowjobs? its just sex, whatever people want to do is their business. its the 21st century, not Victorian England, you need to get over it.
nothing wrong with giving head...it's just slutty to do it at random...if it's your b/f...go crazy...i guess to me it would seem more intimate to put a cock in your mouth...that's how i view eating pussy, i LLLLLLLLLOVVVVVVVVVVE it...but i reserve it for g/f's...i was so tempted to go down in this chick last week who had her clit pierced but i had to keep myself in check...so lesson for the day: sucking dick=not bad...sucking lots of random dicks=bad
most women don't. I don't. My friends don't............. I do not know who disgust me more, the men on here or the WOMEN who fucking support this!!!
To the sluts--- GROW THE FUCK UP
Just because a woman doesn't give head, doesn't mean she is a prude. I like how many people are quick to label them that and then in the same breath talk about choice.
To the woman who posted this- your ex wanted a BJ and thought of his last source and so he called you....... if he weren't in need of a BJ he would not have called or texted you. So I think you do prove the point, that has been made SEVERAL times on this thread, women who give head are not respected.
Omg..... I can't believe this whole thread. I truly hope most of you people are bored and just trying to stir up trouble. If not, then I'm truly saddened by humanity.
Just because you give head doesn't mean you are slutty! If you give head to random guys, then yeah go for it, call them sluts. But for people, including me, that made sure I had a steady relationship before I did please don't name call. It's making you look worse because I know for a fact that I'm not a slut. And I also know for a fact that people do not view me as one either.
11:32AM I was reading this entire thread, then I came to your post and I don;t get it. Is this some sort of new sexual position that I dont know about? or are you an idiot?
For your info 1:23 is man who loves for a lady to go down on him. 1:29 is gonna grow old by herself. You need to learn fast how to suck a dick. 1:26, get real. Our entire vocabulary is designed to put a man down who does that, not a woman. Have enough confidence in yourself to please a man without thinking negative about it. Until then, STFU.
only whores give blowjobs. its disgusting. every guy friend of mine has told me that they view the girls that give them head as sluts. no one wants to bring home the cocksucker to mom. btw, im in no way whatsoever a conservative, most people would refer to me as a liberal.
Penis belongs in the vag, not the mouth....... I dont wanna taste it I wanna feel it. If a guy is too lazy to fuck right, then yea he wants a bj. He best call one of these whores who are proud of giving head and not me.
I think younger women and girls are more likely to give head. They are impressionable and are desperate for approval.
Women who respect themselves dont. Its true. Who would want to give head? And why are so many girls proud of this???
hmm i know several women who have sucked my dick and a few who have sucked other guys dicks..i never thought of them as whores. well i mean i did, but just as much as i consider women who dont suck dick whores. they are all equal in the whore category.
I agree with 1:35. Our vocabulary is designed to put a man down who is blowing guys, it's not for women who does it. The argument sounds stupid to you, because you can't justify why a woman should not be giving head.
10:46AM- It is nasty. And you go down because you can't get the job done otherwise. Guys always cum during sex, women don't always. So yea, guys have to go down. Fact of life.
I dont see anything wrong with it. I was seeing a guy for a couple months and I personally thought it was rude to give him blue balls. it was more so a sign of respect towards him. I didnt have sex because im a virgin and saving myself so I still have dignity and self respect in tact and have never been viewed as a whore. Plus you can get enjoyement from it too if you do it right.
6:38 is an idiot and very shallow. I didn't think oral sex was so taboo. For someone to call another a whore for wanting to please their partner is ridiculous.
2:08PM oh hunny, you are the worst kind of whore..... you think that there is something noble in what you are doing. You are not a virgin........... you are a stupid whore.
12:19PM I think it does, women who give head are more submissive in the real world and are unable to assert themselves. Also they tend to be unable to think for themselves and are used at work and in their personal lives.
I know I take charge and am very independant AND I think for myself. So clearly you are wrong. I want to make my boyfriend happy, but we know we aren't ready for the next step which is sex. So why are you calling people who give head whores when it is personal? You can't just start name calling.
All relationships end, you can't even count on marriage anymore. I think 10:48 is on to something. More women should be like her (and me).
and 10:51AM- I don't give head and my relationships last longer than my friends who do give head. And they always end up a total wreck when they realize that yea, they were cheated on. And it takes them forever to get past it.
10:13AM so not true. The cocksuckers are the least creative women out there. Get with a woman who doesn't, she will do other things that are just wow. Also they are far more passionate than those cocksuckers.
Giving head is a big deal, and it is nothing to be proud of. What is wrong with people. Men want sex more than women, women therefore have the upper hand.
You call the girls who blow their boyfriends whores. But I guess it's okay to fuck everyone in their small little town as long as they are not going down on them.
Whores give head. Nothing to be proud of, nothing special there is no hallmark moment. It is simply an act that involves a stupid woman or girl who is pressured into doing something she doesn't want to do but her pride wont let herself admit she is a whore. A stupid whore at that.
I was not pressured, I was and am still in a relationship and I wanted to pleasure him. Keep your opinions to yourself if they are going to be hateful. I'm not a whore and I give head.
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