@arthurlux Whether someone wants marks like bruises or welts can vary. Often, people don't want to be in the position of having to explain welts or other marks to someone. Examples might be a partner they're cheating on (whether nonsexual S/M play is "cheating" is a whole other debate), a parent or roommate, a health care worker, or their friends at the gym. Not everyone differentiates between consensual S/M play and abuse for one reason or another.
You're just finding this out? Noobs. Here I thought everybody knew "spank me hard enough to leave welts" was a thing you masochists asked for. Kids these days.
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